The 4PLAY Club
Canada's National Capital Swingers Club
Homepage: the4playclub.com
E-Mail: 4play@the4playclub.com
Baby Steps For 1st Time Swingers
Introduction To The How To Guide In all new things in life, you have to learn how to walk before you can run. The same holds true with swinging. You can learn anything in life by yourself, but the road is much harder to travel and you usually hit a lot of bumps along the way. Even though both of you may think you are ready for swinging, issues will arise along the way that you never thought about and both of you will need to work on. This "How To" section is tailored to help instruct and guide the first time swinger in the proper etiquette in the swinging lifestyle, how to approach couples, how to say NO gracefully and many more topics of concern for 1st time swingers.
We have included many hints and tips from swingers that have come and gone before you. We strongly urge new swingers to read this section a few times to help you retain this important information that will hopefully make all of your swinging experiences safe and enjoyable. If you have a hint or tip that you feel we have missed or should be included in this section, please let us know.
What Do We Do Next? Most new swingers are telling us, we think we are ready! What do we do now? Where do we go? What do we wear? What do we bring? How much does it cost? What's next? If you are in this category of new couples and asking these types of questions, then you are in the right place to learn the basics and we hope to provide you with a great deal of helpful information that will answer most of your questions.We have arranged the topics in an order of priority for discussing with your partner and helping both of you progress to more advanced topics as you progress in the swinging lifestyle. You can jump to any topic of your choice, but we recommend that new couples read and discuss the topics in the order they are presented on our web site..
The Very First Step
If you have not already done so, you must ask your partner if they have an interest in the swinging lifestyle. We have included a very detailed help page that will help you ask your partner the right questions. It is the next subject title on our web site and you can jump to it using the link below.
After you have asked your partner about swinging, ensure both of you read all topics in the section "Information For New Swingers". After you have read all the topics in the Information section and both feel that you are ready for the swinging lifestyle, you will both find the remaining information in this "How To" section very helpful.
