An office co-worker!

INTRODUCTION

One of the greatest fears in swinging, especially with new couples starting in the swinging lifestyle, is meeting a friend, neighbor, co worker or even family or boss at a swing club or party!  Many new couples are more afraid of this than sexually transmitted diseases or getting sexually active at a party.

We are sure that some of you would be surprised or feel uncomfortable to meet a co-worker at a party, but some of you might know of a very sexual co-worker that both of you might love to see naked and have her play with both of you!  We are sure you have seen a lady at work that you are curious to see what her pussy looks like or a mans fully erect cock.  Fantasizing about a co-worker or neighbor is very common.
 
 

The next door neighbor!

It is not very common to bump into your neighbor or family members at a swing club or party, but it does happen.  Probably one person in one hundred couples has bumped into a co-worker, high school friend or neighbor over a ten year period in swinging.  The most important thing to remember is that your co-worker, friend etc. wants their privacy in the swinging lifestyle as well as you!  Privacy in the swinging lifestyle is paramount and all couples truly respect this rule, primarily because they also want you to respect it.

A friend from the gym!

We are certain that some of you have fantasized about a few people you have met during your daily schedule.  It can be very exciting to think or wonder if the person at work or the gym who has possibly flirted with you in the past, might be a regular member at a local swing club!

Every encounter we have ever seen in the swinging lifestyle between friends, school mates, neighbors etc., has always been a lot of fun.  Comments such as "How long have you guys been swingers?" or "Nice to see you guys, we did not know you were into swinging." or "Wow, we always thought you might be a swinger." or "It feels a little strange, but we are glad to see you here as well."

We have never seen a chance meeting between anyone get ugly or upsetting.  Many encounters will feel a bit awkward but truly an event that both of you will remember and have fun with in the future.
 
 

 

The neighbor upstairs!

What if your upstairs neighbor has fantasized about jumping on your hard cock?  You may have even wondered how her legs would feel wrapped around your body or does she shave her pussy?  Some neighbors you would probably not want to see naked, but many couples across the country are active swingers.  When you become active in swinging, you will start to truly wonder or hope that a friend or neighbor might be involved in swinging.

It should not be any surprise that your co-workers, friends, neighbors, family etc. are all having some form of sex.  It is the human nature to bond sexually with another partner.

We have personally bumped into a school mate and a few business associates during 20+ years of swinging.  We have hoped to bump into a few neighbors and friends we have the hots for, but we have learned long ago to never approach people outside of the adult clubs, magazines etc.

A hot couple you both know!

We are sure many of the ladies have also fantasized about a friend or neighbor.  Some of you have probably been told that a certain person is really good with the ladies or is quite the stud etc.  Many ladies have even fantasized about a BI experience with a co-worker or friend.

Every swinger we have ever met has fantasized about someone they have met on the street or at work etc.  These fantasies are normal, but when entering a swing club or party for the first time, couples get a bit nervous about meeting a neighbor or co-worker etc.

Helping out on the farm!

It has always been nice to have friends and neighbors help you out on the farm or with your garden, why not sexual playmates during breaks!  If a friend is in need, you should help plant the seed.  Remember to love thy neighbor!  Never covet your neighbors wife, get permission first.

 
 

We truly need to get sex between heterosexuals out of the closet.  All humans are very sexual by nature and our constant drive for experimentation is never ending.  Swingers are very sexually active couples and have a very high libido for sex.  Swingers love to experiment in different places, with different toys, clothes or different sexual partners.

If you meet a friend, co-worker, family member, boss etc. in the swinging lifestyle, be polite and think of all the new possibilities that might be available on vacations, playing in the back yard pool etc.