INTRODUCTION  These policies or rules are established for the comfort and enjoyment of all our members.  We ask that if you know of someone breaking any of them, please let them know in a gentle but firm manner.  They may not be aware of the rule, and a little courtesy goes a long way.  If they become rude, or otherwise indicate that they cannot or will not comply, please get hold of Doug or Sharon (your hosts).  We will resolve the situation.  We are all here to have a good time and enjoy both ourselves and others, but we can't do that without some common ground.  These rules help avoid problems or misunderstandings and are to ensure that all members clearly understand their rights and obligations.

"NO" MEANS "NO!"  This is probably the foundation of our lifestyle.  Very basically, the right to say "yes" is accompanied by the right to say "no".  Don't be afraid to be firm.  Be polite, but be firm.  Unfortunately, if you are not clear in your statement, you may be giving another person or couple the wrong impression.  Although you know what you mean, there are some people who only understand "NO!!!".  Only ask those you want to say "yes." If they say "no," take it graciously.  When you say "yes" to others, be honest and enthusiastic.  When you say "no," be tactful and courteous.  If you become insistent, you and your partner will be ejected immediately without a second warning.

RESERVATIONS  Call (or E-MAIL) and let us know you are coming.  Reservations are a must at our private parties.  If you find you can't go after having made a reservation, call back and cancel.  It makes it a lot easier to plan the proper amount of food and keep track of who hasn't arrived yet when we know how many guests to expect.  We can't be good hosts if you don't help.  Arrive on time unless other arrangements have been made.  Members should arrive between 8:30pm and 9:00pm.  If it is your first time attending our parties, please arrive closer to 8:30pm for an introduction to our facilities.  Our parties usually kick off between 9:15-9:30pm.

 

SAFETY  Our parties are held at a private facility, not public.  We have two group rooms for group swinging.  If you take your partner or any other person to the group room to swing, you can expect others to ask to join you and your partner.  We also have two bathrooms and a sitting/dancing area located in a rec. room.  Private rooms are not available at our club.  We do provide some condoms, but safe sex is ultimately your personal responsibility.  If you have any medical condition that we should be aware of such as conditions on medic alert bracelets, we want to be prepared for any medical emergency before it happens.

DISCRETION  This rule is very simple. "What you see here, and hear here, stays here when you leave here!"  You are not to disseminate our web pages to people not in the lifestyle by any means (including letting others read it) nor are you to talk to any member of the press, radio, TV, etc. about our club.  You are not to discuss our parties in any place where others, not in the lifestyle, can overhear you.  You can describe our parties only in general terms to others in the lifestyle, to see if they might be interested in joining our group.

PRIVACY  All of our club members value your privacy and expect the same from you.  Please remember that we do not wish to have ANY public announcements about our parties and we wish to have only suitable people attending our parties.  We want you to feel very safe, comfortable, and protected.  The location of our parties, names of the party attendees, and their activities at the party must never be divulged to anyone! Access to the membership list is strictly controlled and never given to anyone else.
 
 

COUPLES ONLY  You must arrive and leave a party as a couple, unless other arrangements have been made beforehand with the hosts.  It is frowned upon by most hosts and other swingers at a party when a partner, usually the woman, departs, leaving her mate or date at the party as a single.  This is a couples club, not a singles club.  Singles are permitted at some of our special or affiliate functions.  Some threesomes are permitted but must arrive and leave the party as a threesome.  Your third partner must be pre-screened in the same manner you were and must be an active swinger in the lifestyle and be compatible with our members.  The balance of males and females are kept even whenever possible.

WHAT TO WEAR   Attractive but casual party clothes are best.  For our on-premise parties, take a robe, negligee, teddy or other slip-on.  You may find it more comfortable as the evening continues.  We keep the rooms very warm, but the outfits you wear can make the rooms hot!  Keep money, jewelry and other valuables at a minimum or lock them in your car.  We are not responsible for lost or stolen items.  Jeans or torn dirty clothing will not get other couples snuggling up to you.  We want you to feel comfortable, so jeans are permitted if they are in good shape and clean.

Most of the men wear dress slacks and a loose fitting shirt.  Some of the men wear boxers or sexy thong underwear.  Most of the women dress very sexy or revealing and many of them bring lingerie to change into.  Short skirts, stay up stockings, high heals and a sexy or revealing bra etc.

HYGIENE & ATTITUDE  Good grooming is a must.  Be aware of your body and take care of it.  Few things kill the mood more quickly than body odor.  Also be aware of your kisses tasting of cigarettes or liquor.  Remember that safe sex is YOUR responsibility.  A Good mental attitude and emotional health will make you popular.  The person with the smile, ready laugh and an obvious interest in others is the person others like to be around.

NO TICKETS OR PROSTITUTES!  If you need to pay, or get paid for sex, go downtown.  You're not a swinger.  Don't take someone who has no intention of swinging or who is not fully informed as to the nature of the party and their expected behavior but Is willing to go along to get someone else in, to a swing party.  We do not allow you to bring tickets (a paid person or girlfriend or boyfriend who is not aware of the nature of our events) to our parties.  Soliciting any member or paying for sex will get you ejected from the club and banned from all future events.  Paid escorts are not welcome in the swinging lifestyle.

SEX IS A SPORT  Our sport is a national sport which members compete in from coast to coast.  Many couples require great concentration and effort to compete in the sport of sex.  There are more movies made about our sport of sex than any other sport in the world combined!  Don't disturb the swinging enjoyment of others in a bedroom or other swing area with loud or prolonged talk.  Do not use our play areas as social discussion areas, we have a sitting area reserved for social talk.

MEMBERS ONLY  Only members are admitted to club functions.  You are always welcome to sponsor an appropriate couple for membership review and screening.  Please contact us by email with your first name, phone number, and the best time to call you back.  After talking to you, and to them, we will extend a personal invitation to them by mail or phone based on your personal recommendation and responsibility and their suitability.  Until they get an invitation from us they are NOT eligible to attend.

NO DRUGS! Obviously, we cannot allow either the use or possession of any illegal substances on premises.  We will not debate this issue at all.  What you do on your property is your business, but you don't do it here! Likewise, if you are stoned, ripped, or high; please don't come by.  Additionally, although we allow members to BYOB, we do not want or need anyone using alcohol to excess.  If you need to alter your mind that badly in order to party then you are in the wrong lifestyle.

NO SMOKING INSIDE  There is NO smoking permitted inside any part of our facility. If you want to smoke, you must go outside.  Some of our members have allergies or asthma not to mention we have almost been burned by cigarettes at other house parties.

NON PROFIT CLUB  Our club is run as a hobby or sport club for active swingers. Our parties are BYOB (bring your own bottle), only drink what you bring.  Excessive drinking will not be tolerated at our private parties.

NON CAMERAS OR RECORDING DEVICES  All of our members privacy is paramount.  Cameras or recording devices are not permitted at any party.  We do have a few members that are into photography and would love to make sex films with willing partners.  Our parties are no place for recording of any kind.

NON COMPLIANCE  Failure to comply with these policies is grounds for immediate termination of all membership privileges including attendance at any 4PLAY parties or associated events.

STAYING OVER As long as we have space available, we are only too happy to have you stay and party all night.  We do ask however, that if you live within a one hour drive, and are not under the influence, that you do go home when you are done for the evening.  We do give overnight priority to any member couple who has traveled more than one hour to get to our parties.  We have lots of mattresses for you to sleep on, but we do recommend that you bring a sleeping bag.
 
 

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