Why Another Club?:  Some clubs specialize in S&M, other clubs specialize in erotic social gatherings, polyamory, some even specialize in the bizarre or gay lifestyles.  Many couples over the years have expressed to us an interest in having a private, swingers only club for full swing couples.  Some private parties may or may not attract sexually active swingers, it can be a hit or miss function that has cost all of us time and money.  We have traveled several hours to parties that were excellent and others that were not as advertised.  We know what works at swingers parties and we know what does not.  We also wanted to see a club run for FUN not PROFIT!

That's why we formed the 4PLAY Club in November of 1998. The FOR PLAYERS ONLY CLUB, or 4PLAY as it's affectionately known, is a private on-premise club, for sexually active swingers or couples that wish to become sexually active with other couples.  4PLAY has Ottawa's most erotic swinger parties and is a private club for sexually liberated couples where fantasies do come true.

Today, we have over 200 member couples in Eastern Ontario, Western Quebec, and Northern New York.  The volume of active swingers attending our club is 100% of members.  This does not mean that they play with everyone, but everyone does get active.  100% of our members are "FULL SWAP SWINGERS".  All of our members enjoy full intercourse with matching playmates.  More than 80% of our member ladies are BI.  We have approx. 40 BI men in our club as well.  We have between 7 and 12 couples that attend our monthly parties.  The average age of our members is between 35 and 45.  We do have members as young as 20 and a few into their early 60's.

About The 4PLAY Club:  We are an ON-PREMISE swingers club for COUPLES and their playmates, where erotic and sensuous activity and dress is actively supported and encouraged in a private, safe, and discreet environment.  Couples frequently talk about their fantasies and club members do what they can to meet the demand.  We meet once a month on Saturday night in the Ottawa area.  To encourage both sexy dancing and social interaction between our members, we have a very warm and dark environment with red lights, great dance music, three separate play areas, two bathrooms and very comfortable lounge area.  In addition, we have a small bar where you can bring your own bottle which is staffed by very open-minded people.  Adult XXX satellite programs are playing with the volume turned down.  Our private 4Play events are held in private members homes or in large hotel suites in Ottawa.  
 
 

We encourage people to dress sexy and erotically for all of our events. (e.g. Silk & Satin, Sheer & See through, Lingerie, etc.)  While no one is forced to be dressed in these items, most are, because it heightens their involvement with other members and it certainly adds to the fun.  We don't have themes, newsletters or intro/getting to know you games, our members do not need them to get into the swing of things.  Most of our members meet and chat with new members for 15-30 minutes and if there is any sexual attraction between two people, they get sexually active in our playrooms and get to know their playmates better after the sexual play.

We think that having erotic fun with other couples, is what the lifestyle is all about.  Plus a chance to meet many other like-minded people, who you can talk to, face-to-face, over a drink, or during a dance, without the difficulty of arranging a private meeting and exposing names, addresses, and phone numbers.

All of our members are currently active in the lifestyle and most of them are not shy.  We will be planning special events for couples who are interested in becoming active.  Every swinger is a voyeur to a certain extent, but we do not allow VOYEURS ONLY or EXHIBITIONISTS ONLY to attend, and we strongly discourage boors.  Our members are sensitive, sophisticated, and intelligent while at the same time they are very erotic and sensuous.  We do not permit inappropriate behavior such as using illegal drugs, pushing your partner or others, getting drunk, etc.  We will eject members from our club if they cause any discomfort for any of our attendees.

We do encourage safe sex, but everyone has their limits to safety!  Our membership is split about 50/50 on the use of condoms.  50% make it mandatory for full intercourse and the other 50% prefer not to use condoms, but every person will use them if asked (which is mandatory by request or you don't play)!

Let us reassure you that we run this club for love of the sport and not for profit.

Level Of Play:  We get asked this question quite often by new couples or SOFT SWINGERS.  Our club has specialized in SWINGING and for our members this includes SOFT SWINGING and FULL SWAP SWINGING.  We ask that new couples who have told us they are very sexually active in their screening applications, to at least play with their own partner sexually at our functions as a minimum.  Maybe you just want to get out and let others eat at your Golden Arches above!, or maybe you would prefer to do the whole full swing experience below.

No couple is ever asked or expected to play with any other couple, this is a personal choice.  If playing with your own partner in front of other sexually active couples makes you feel uncomfortable, then our club is definitely not a good starting place for the lifestyle.

Fantasies Cum True:  Every couple we know of is looking for some fantasy of theirs to cum true.  New couples coming to our club for the first time are very surprised at the comfort level of all the couples in attendance.  It does not take long before fantasies turn into reality!

When you are in a group of sexually active couples and we get a chance to introduce you to some of our horny members, it is our pleasure to let couples know what you are both looking for.  Some couples come out to play with their own partner to start, other want a long awaited fantasy of a MFF to come true or a first BI experience and many many more.  The secret is not to be shy and let others know what you are looking for.  Be careful what you wish for, because it just might cum true!

Our Definition Of Swinging:  Swinging is the enjoyment and sharing of each other or a partner for consensual sexual play or intercourse with one or more people outside the traditional monogamous sexual relationships found in marriage.  Swinging is primarily a heterosexual sport for couples and some singles where a number of the partners are also bisexual.

4Play In A Nutshell:  Our 4Play Club is for couples and their playmates who are not jealous and love getting sexually active with matching partners in a short period of time and get to know you socially later.  Our members love sex and are very sexually active couples.  Our members also love to watch their partners having sex with many other playmates.  4Play members do not focus on finding a matching couple, they prefer to openly mix and find a matching playmate to have sex with.  Our members do socialize before, during and after sexual play.  All of our members know why all the participants are attending a private party for, so if their is any attraction between two people, it is very quick to go and play.

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